Every one involved, stop.
All the players, and we know who we are, STOP POSTING. Stop explaining. Just stop.
REFRAIN FROM POSTING. ~~THINK~~ RE-READ THE ORIGINAL THREAD.
And if you find, on the original thread, your comments, or the actions you took, IN ANY WAY, whether intentional or not, were hurtful or insensitive to another poster, OWN IT.
What’s happening here this morning is INEFFECTIVE.
Each one of us who participated needs to clean our slate and then, and only then, can we start over.