The myth of consumption

Sometime in your life, hope that you might see one starved man, the look on his face when the bread finally arrives. Hope that you might have baked it or bought or even kneaded it yourself. For that look on his face, for the meeting of your eyes across a piece of bread, you might be willing to loose a lot, or suffer a lot, or die a little, even.

Daniel Berrigan

I read this quote for the first time this morning in the amazing diary by Hillary Rettig and OPOL titled Giving Thanks for Progressive Activists and its been on my mind all day. I’ve been thinking alot about the myriad of myths that we respond to almost automatically without much awareness. When we read a quote like that, it resonates deeply. We know it is truth. And yet the myth that getting more for ourselves will somehow make us happy is how we tend to live our lives.

We’ve all had the experience of giving something meaningful to someone in need – be it emotional or physical. And we know that it brings a sense of happiness and meaning that can never be matched by our own possessions. So I wonder why we, as a culture, never seem to learn from these very real experiences we have.

I know that a big part of the problem is the bombardment of the media in creating the illusion that their products will bring happiness and fullfillment if we only work hard enough to have the means to purchase them. But I still believe that IN OUR HEARTS, we know this is a lie. And still the cycle goes on.

There are actually a myriad of complex issues that get in our way of giving rather than consuming, not the least of which is that we don’t spend much time around those who are truly in need. Giving money to an organization that is going to give that man/woman/child a piece of bread means that we never see the look in their eyes and we loose that life-changing experience Berrigan is talking about.

But really, I think that what is ultimately at the root of our need to consume rather than share is fear. On the surface, its fear about what others will think of us if we don’t have what we think that they think we should have. We need to prove ourselves worthy – to have somehow “made it” by the kind of possessions we have.

And then on a deeper level, there is the fear of not having enough. The myth of scarcity that Lynne Twist talks about in her book The Soul of Money. If we thought there was enough for us, we might be more likely to share. But we’ve never learned the meaning of “enough”…so we always need more.

Anyway, these are just some rambling thoughts I’ve had today, sparked by the quote from Berrigan. What I hope to take with me is the anticipation of the look in the eyes of someone who’s hungry and I just happen to have a loaf of bread. That’s the thrill I want to anticipate.

A Reality-Based Agenda for the ’08 Campaign

Here it is.  It comes in three parts:

1) a “reality-based” political agenda for the future.

2) a discussion of the pragmatics (relation of discourse to hearers/readers) of political agendas

3) a critique of a successful politician’s agenda.

(crossposted on ecosocialism)

Part one: A Reality-Based Political Agenda:

All candidates are capable of free will.

Perhaps they will use this free will to recognize the real physical condition we’re in.  If this actually happens, expect:

1) a recognition that bourgeois government is entirely inappropriate to a time in history (now) when everyone must pull together to save Earth’s ecosystems from abrupt climate change and several other ecosystemic disasters

2) an attempt to pull together to deal with this situation in a way that climate scientists would recognize as legitimate, which would begin with three measures:

2a) a complete reordering of the global economy for the sake of insuring minimum living standards for all of humanity

2b) a solid, binding international agreement to keep fossil fuels in the ground

2c) a devolution of power to local levels across the globe to relieve the human race of international (and class-based) economic dependencies

2a) would entail:

3) scrapping the current global economic order and replacing it with an economic order based on permacultural principles

2c) would be part of:

4) a phasing-out of capitalist economic relations, i.e. social classes in Marx’s sense of the term, as will be necessary to create the social relations necessary to coordinate people to be part of this program

which would entail

4a) a phasing-in of non-authoritarian relations throughout all human societies, from child-rearing to education to “defense.”

and don’t forget

5) a massive employment problem in the service of planetary reforestation w/ emphasis upon edible fruit trees

toward the end specified in 6):

6) a global, ecologically sustainable society

Now, all of them, even the Republican ones, have the capacity of free will, so that any time they want they can come to their senses and adopt a program that looks something like this.  But, to do so, they’d have to scrap their allegiance to neoliberalism, they’d have to abandon the quid pro quo assumptions that underlie the corrupt world of campaign contributions, they’d have to stop pretending that “alternative energy” is the solution to abrupt climate change, they’d have to abandon their capitalist ideological outlooks, and so on: in short, they’d have to abandon the fakery and pretense that the mass media requires of them in order to grant them more than six minutes of debate time in the first instance.

As a communicative measure, they’d have to abandon the piecemeal debate schematic that divides everything up into “issues” so that candidates can waffle and spin their way through debates, pleasing many masters at once while doing good for no one, and while covering over their cluelessness before the one issue that matters: the future.

Part Two: The Pragmatics of Campaign Agendas

Pragmatics, of course, is a very important thing in political campaigns.  When coming from politicians, words hardly mean anything outside of the context in which political support must be coaxed out of audiences.  Politicians, in short, tell you what you want to hear; it is in their job description to do so.  They must, then, please many masters at once. You hope that one of those masters is you.

Now, describing “what you want to hear” from a politician is no easy task; you can bet, for instance, that the science of demographics is indicated in practically everything that a successful politician says.  And, of course, beyond demographics, there is the reality of what the data say — politicians are, in the most successful cases, responding to (and building upon) public opinion.  

At the same time, however, the political/pragmatic evocation of public opinion has to be tempered with a respect for money, since (after all) money must be raised to run a competitive political advertising campaign.  Moreover, I would hazard the guess that the money factor has ballooned out of all proportion to the persuasiveness of the campaigns themselves, merely because competitive amounts of money (and subsequent advertising campaigns) must be raised in order to give the public impression of “electability.”  What this means for the rhetoric/ discourse of campaign agendas is that words must be said with financial gain in mind.

Lastly, the coercive control of the election process by “media barons” (this wording comes from a translation of Jurgen Habermas’ old (1962) volume Structural Transformation of the Public Sphere must be placed into accounts.  As the Columbia Journalism Review has well documented, national media are owned by corporations with specific financial interests; and these interests are unlikely to report news in a fashion that contradicts them.  One is unlikely, for instance, to say bad things about nuclear weapons on NBC, whose parent company GE makes nuclear weapons.  The relevance of this ownership pattern is not lost on successful candidates, who must “stage-manage” successful campaigns with the help of media barons.

Now, as for the implication that I am merely being “cynical” in suggesting that politicians are mere chameleons who will “forfeit their souls” as such in order to get elected — well, folks who say that sort of thing have underestimated the brutality of the selection process and the importance of the final result to those who possess inordinate amounts of power to affect it.  Political power is a hot commodity for those who imagine themselves “buying” it with campaign donations, as the profit margins to be gained from legislation are incalculably high.

In light of all this, we should recognize that, just as the politicians are trying to become better politicians, we should try to become better voters.  However, our efforts, and the efforts of the politicians, may extend in opposite directions: while the politicians compete to be more “competitive,” we may feel obliged to move in a meta-direction, discussing political issues, communicative strategies, and the political “feasibility” of the reality-based political agenda as if our positions on the issues really mattered.  The politicians, in short, are not “on our side” — WE are “on our side,” and the politicians are “on THEIR side,” and we should busy ourselves with the notion that “our side” must eventually prevail.  This does not mean mere crass “self-interest,” but rather an incorporation of what’s good for humanity into “our side.”  We especially need to be expanding the publicly-acceptable definition of “saving the earth” so that our government may at some future point actually do such a thing.

Part Three: a discussion of a political agenda:

      For purposes of convenience, I shall analyze the Web-published agenda of Hillary Clinton, as she is the front-running candidate in an election widely perceived to “go to the Democratic Party candidate.”  (This is not to imply any animosity toward Senator Clinton, nor is it to imply that anyone else can “do a better job.”  For that matter, it isn’t an endorsement, either.)  For purposes of brevity, the analysis will be superficial, and won’t go beyond the statements of purpose.  In all fairness, however, I ought to look at other statements as well: I do, however, wish to limit the length of this diary.  So, as follows:

1.  To end the war in Iraq.

      2. To achieve universal, affordable health care.

      3. To create new jobs for middle-class Americans with the right investments in modern infrastructure and in new, clean energy-efficient technologies that reduce our dependence on foreign oil and combat global warming.

      4. To provide world-class education, from universal pre-kindergarten to affordable college for all.

      5. To promote 21st century scientific research, including stem cell research.

      6. To return to fiscal responsibility, move back toward a balanced budget,  and safeguard Social Security and Medicare for future generations.

      7. To restore competence and end cronyism in government, with a president who cares about and works for Americans who have been invisible to this administration.

      8. To combat terrorism, strengthen our military, and care for our veterans.

      9. To restore America’s standing in the world and repair our alliances.

     10. To build a more tolerant, united America, working to achieve big goals again, with a president who’s ready for change and ready to lead from day one.

Let’s take a look at each agenda item, from the perspective of a pragmatic analyst and from the perspective of my reality-based agenda.  The resultant product should give us a notion of what rhetoric has to do to catch up with reality.

1.  To end the war in Iraq.  Indeed, this is a valid goal, addressing the concerns of those who have lost loved ones in Iraq.  But how is it to be accomplished?  Wouldn’t it be clearer to have the US wash its hands of the war-making efforts in Iraq, and to broker a peace treaty between the remaining warring factions?  Clinton argues for “withdrawing troops” and “phased redeployment” in other statements, but without specifics.  Sometimes, however, clarity isn’t the preferred option, especially if one wishes to garner the votes of differing factions on an issue.  A reality-based perspective would suggest that the enormous quantity of energy consumption (and concomitant US infrastructure) required to maintain a US infrastructure in Iraq (fourteen bases and all) is a danger to the global energy economy and the orientation to abrupt climate change as well as to the Iraqi ecology and social fabric.

2.  To achieve universal, affordable health care.  Once again, a valid goal, and certainly a concern of Americans who pay high health-insurance premiums.  But the question of how this is to be done can also be said simply.  “Single payer” and “managed competition” are two-word expressions that say quite a bit as to how “universal, affordable health care” is to be achieved.  A reality-based perspective would note the health-services disaster that competitive, capitalist health insurance has become.

 3.  To create new jobs for middle-class Americans with the right investments in modern infrastructure and in new, clean energy-efficient technologies that reduce our dependence on foreign oil and combat global warming.  Investments in infrastructure and energy-efficient technologies will allow individual consumers to do more with less energy.  And everyone who is unemployed is looking for a job.  But neither measure will reduce dependence upon “foreign oil,” nor will they combat global warming.  Reducing dependence upon “foreign oil” would mean actually not consuming foreign oil, and combating global warming would mean increasing the prevalence of “carbon sinks,” i.e plant-life, and (more importantly) leaving fossil-fuel energy in the ground.

4. To provide world-class education, from universal pre-kindergarten to affordable college for all.  Again, a noble goal without specifics.  I have argued previously, from a reality-based perspective, that the decline in education can only be halted if its purpose can be ascertained.  Please also see Horse Philosopher’s diary on this topic.

5. To promote 21st century scientific research, including stem cell research.  Indeed a valid goal, one that will address the interests of corporations doing scientific research.

6. To return to fiscal responsibility, move back toward a balanced budget,  and safeguard Social Security and Medicare for future generations.  Safeguarding Social Security and Medicare are certainly important goals, with potentially universal popularity.  But what is “fiscal responsibility” in the age of dollar hegemony, esp. when the main problem with the economy is the threat that the shrinking of the middle class will create a crisis of overproduction?

7. To restore competence and end cronyism in government, with a president who cares about and works for Americans who have been invisible to this administration.  A valid goal, one that moreover addresses widespread cynicism about government.

8. To combat terrorism, strengthen our military, and care for our veterans.  Caring for veterans is indeed a valid goal.  But how is “combating terrorism” to be accomplished?  Do our candidates view “terrorism” as a crime, or as an act of war?  And why does the military need to be “strong” in an era absent a serious military threat to the United States?  This looks like an appeal to the military’s financial interests, much of which will have to be curtailed in an era dedicated to ecological sustainability.

9. To restore America’s standing in the world and repair our alliances.  This sort of rhetoric appears to be addressed to some international business interests, which benefit from “friendly relations between nations.”  Business interests also benefit from US imperialism, however; so imprecise language may have to serve a function here.

10. To build a more tolerant, united America, working to achieve big goals again, with a president who’s ready for change and ready to lead from day one.  Indeed, tolerance is a worthy goal; it’s better than intolerance.  But the rest of this “bulletin point” appears to be composed of slogans.  Slogans are part of every Presidential candidate’s art.  This bulletin-point is certainly full of them.

To conclude: the typical complaint one reads about how this candidate or that is “unworthy” of one’s vote might be read as implying that the system can select another political candidate whose positions will offer “worthiness.”  This is not at all necessarily so.  The system may simply be programmed to select Presidential candidates who are not capable of dealing with economic and ecological realities.  Our obligation is to be better voters so that our politicians will be better prompted to offer us reality-based rhetoric.

It was 44 years ago today…

that JFK did lay, dead in the back of that limo in Dallas, Texas. …

…And yesterday would have been his brother, Bobby’s (RFK’s), 82nd birthday.

When Dr. King was murdered on April 4, 1968, in Memphis, Bobby Kennedy’s campaign paid to have Dr. King’s body flown from Memphis to Atlanta.  There, at 1 AM, in the dark of a chapel/funeral home, (now Congressman) John Lewis arranged for Bobby and Ethel Kennedy to visit Dr. King’s body, alone.  And Rep. Lewis recalls saying to himself, “Well at least we still have Bobby.”

And then, within two months , RFK was also killed.

If anyone wonders why 1968 (when I was 15) was the year the world ended for me, just ask me for more details.

It only got worse.

Still, the struggle continues.

Not really an essay here, still, I wouldn’t have made it then without my personal savior..



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Writing in the Raw: Tradition

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When I was growing up my Dad was in the Air Force; we moved around… a Lot. Most holidays it was just us, no extended family. I guess in some way to make up for this perceived lack, Mama and Daddy always had ‘orphans’ for the holidays: cadets who couldn’t get home, officers just posted to the base whose family hadn’t yet arrived, young wives whose husbands were overseas and later stranded college kids my sibs brought home.

    Mama always put on quite the  feast…we weren’t allowed anywhere near the kitchen for several days before each holiday. It became a running joke. “She’s doing this on purpose, you know” Dad would stage whisper several times, “She’s starving us so our appetites will be immense & we’ll declare whatever slop she dishes out as food of the gods.”

      And oh, what a heavenly feast it was! Starting with the appetizers in the living room olives, both black and green(stuffed with pimento to suck out & just the right size to wear on fingers), pnuts honeyed and spanish, cashews, crackers and cheese, several kinds of pickles….and drinks, wine for the adults and fruit punch with little chunks of fruit for the kids.

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Then the table…with the Special Table Cloth alternating squares of heavily embroidered white on white and finely woven lace, nicely starched and laid with the holiday china pure white, elegant in its simplicity; and the silver and crystal … and groaning under the weight of the Rockwellian feast: a large turkey with giblet stuffing & gravy, ham covered in pineapple rings with a  clove/cinnamon/brown sugar glaze; large bowls filled with vegetables: mashed potatoes, candied yams w/marshmallows, peas w/ onions, corn, french green bean casserole, broccoli casserole, macaroni & cheese, cranberry sauce and jelly, heaps of crescent rolls…

    And on the sideboard awaiting the winding down, loosen your belt time-the Deserts: pecan pie, apple pie, pumpkin pie, and devils food cake with buttercream frosting … ice cream & whipped cream for those who wanted it…coffee for everyone & brandy for the adults.

    And she did it all herself…from scratch.

    She’d looked so happy watching everyone eat… but utterly exhausted. To the point where she didn’t get to really enjoy the company and she’d collapse after everyone left. Just to reproduce in real time someone else’s idea of a perfect Thanksgiving. I thought (& still do) that’s ridiculous!

    Now, don’t get me wrong- I love tradition… but not just for traditions sake. So the thing I kept from my growing-up Thanksgiving was the orphans. The first year we were married the closest family at Thanksgiving was MrD’s Aunt Lillian & Uncle Tom. They had a seafood business which translated to seafood on the table. They did have a small turkey & all the trimmings, but there were many traditional items with a new nautical nature- oyster stuffing(!) And many new things I loved at first bite. I realized later that was a lean year at Uncle Tom’s, most years have only two seafood dishes, after all seafood is not special when you eat it daily.

    We decided after that, since neither of us truly enjoy turkey, we wouldn’t have it. Its our tradition (& I really think those Indians did too) to have a Seafood Extravaganza! I figure if I’m going to all the time, trouble, and expense of putting on a big, three course dinner, it’s going to be something I truly enjoy- seafood. We have only things that we like and the menu varies a bit from year to year depending on availability. Here’s how it goes at my house…

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    The day before is spent on making salads and dessert. Salads are homemade potato salad, fruit mess, and shrimp salad. All of these are made ahead, cause they taste better the next day. Of course extra is factored in ahead of time, to account for all the surreptitious ‘tasting’ that goes on. Dessert is my nod toward tradition … we call it ‘sand and seafoam’- alternating layers of pumpkin mousse and a cream cheese/brown sugar/sour cream blend served in tall beer glasses… you must eat it in two sessions it’s so rich!

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    On t-day the rest is assembled. Everyone helps to prepare the meal and the work usually winds up being done in the living room, everyone surrounded by bags and bowls. Any ‘orphans’ are given something to do & instructions…everybody pitches in. And of course music is on! And everyone chit-chats,  so it goes quickly & its nice to have extended time catching up with everyone. I’m hoping my son & his wife will again make sushi for our midmorning snack this year. (yumm)

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    We start in the morning fixing broccoli casserole and creamed corn… but mostly it’s all about the seafood- along with that shrimp salad served in avocado halves, we have oyster pie and scallop pie, steamed crab legs, baked crabstuffed flounder, oranged orange roughy, and crab cakes in pastry. The only truly traditional thing we have is canned cranberry jelly, and thats only if I remember to put it on the list. (my daughter says I always say I’m going to get cranberry jelly, but never do-lol) As each thing is cooked it goes on the counter, covered in tin foil.

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     When everything is done we change clothes, get freshened up, have a glass of wine. Then I cook what we eat for starters: oyster stew with those little puffy saltines. Everyone goes to sit in the dining room, the table has been set with Mama’s second best cloth, the one with colourful embroidery (but I have been known to use a clean sheet), the ‘Sunday’ china and recently inherited silver. I serve the oyster stew and then the thing we do at my house instead of a blessing (I mean, which god do you pray to?) is everyone says what they’re thankful for this year while they have their stew. Its been quite an experience hearing different takes on that, especially the changes as my children grew.

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      When you finish you pick up your plate & stew bowl, take your bowl to the sink & fill up your plate from all the dishes on the counter. MrD puts on Alice’s Restaurant and the feasting really begins. My son brings the bowl of crab legs to the table, as this and dessert is all he’ll eat at this seating. I’m having several ‘widows & orphans’ again this year… For the first time in many years it will be just the family. it makes for I’ll miss the   lively conversation when you gather 6 or 8 people with no where to go on holidays!

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    For me, it’s all about the time spent with the people I love, enjoying being together. We could be making pancakes & it’d be cool with me…the kids could call on Thursday morning saying they’ll be late & O mom, BTW I’m bringing 6 extra people & it’d be fine… hell, I’ve had ‘regular orphans’ show up with extra people- it’s not a problem! We eat when it’s all ready and serve whoever shows up. We really enjoy our untraditional Thanksgiving, it has become our tradition, and for some of our ‘orphans’ too!

I recently saw some show on TV about Thanksgiving and its ‘traditions’ in this nation of immigrants. Meteor Blades recently mentioned this also. Different families from varying ethnicities were visited, film was shot of many, many Thanksgiving tables. What struck me was how in many homes favorite ethnic ‘feast’ dishes were prepared and a turkey.

Black beans & rice, platanos, and a turkey.

Three-day-to-prepare marinera, pasta bird nests, garlic bread, stuffed grape leaves, and a turkey.

Egg drop soup, Lo Mein, eggrolls, and a turkey.

All the varied cultures and peoples of our country, united over food.

I think turkey or no turkey, pilgrims, indians, or whatever way you & your ancestors came here…Thanksgiving is a good day to unite over food…to pause and reflect…take stock of the little things…to be thankful of all we have…and tell others how much we appreciate them.

   So tell me about your Ideal Thanksgiving…maybe not the one you go to, or even the one you had growing up… but what does your dream thanksgiving consist of?

Pony Party: Thanksgiving evening with Gackt and Hyde!