Pony Party: Morning

Well, I got plenty of “winter driving” experience in since most days were built around going to the hospital. I had a particularly charming drive in a white out on slippery roads. I desperately wanted to find another car to follow and discovered that I was the pied piper leading a row of equally cautious cars.

It was a stressful visit but one full of learning experiences, in fact, I have not quite determined all of the lessons the universe decided to bestow upon me. My grandmother got discharged from the hospital the yesterday and we decided that until a suitable retirement/nursing home can be found we are going to get extra care to help her out in her apartment. She is not ill enough for a tradition long term care facility but clearly not quite able to manage on her own for much longer. I left feeling as worried about my mother who confessed that she felt very overwhelmed and was glad I came down just to help out and be a sounding board. Two of my old friends offered to check in on my grandmother on a regular basis. One friend surprised me by being very unavailable, she is resuming her art career and clearly saw me as a distraction. When I was younger, this would have angered or hurt me. I simply accepted that she chose not to see me and move on. Knowing I had an on line home full of kind people who were sending good vibes my way helped tremendously. It could have been much worse.

My aunt and uncle, who are very unstable, called demanding that we let grandmother move in with them. My grandmother rolled her eyes and said she would rather live in the worst nursing home on the planet. Three days later my uncle called again to announce that he was leaving my aunt and that he was drowning. My mother and I rolled our eyes.

I took some random shots of the area around my mother’s place with “ye old back up camera”, not my best stuff and I am firmly blaming the camera….

Oddly enough, it being winter in Southern Ontario, we had snow…

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Long shot of my mother’s place from the road. We won’t even have the discussion about the fact that my 68 year old mother lives in an isolated rural area on 65 acres….

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Pre-snow at my mother’s place….

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The barn….

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Neighbor places… it is very farmy… in fact my mother lets a neighbor farm some of her land…

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Birds being birds…..

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Thanks for looking and please feel free to share any pictures you have taken. Remember, don’t recommend pony party, hang out chit chat, and then go read some of the excellent offerings on the recent and rec’d list.

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  1. I might have brought the weather home with me we have a touch of freezing rain this am.

    • RiaD on January 26, 2008 at 3:32 pm

    i was thinking of you & your mom as i started a quilt 3 days ago… sending you happy thoughts

    i’m very happy gram is out of hospital… hired help might allow her to stay home all her days… betweem MrD&me and a hired girl we kept MsSara & MrGre home til the end… days i wouldn’t trade for anything. do try to call mama alot so she can vent…

    ver ver glad you’re home…missedyou

    {{{{*{ucc}*}}}}

    (^.^)

  2. Sounds like you’re doing well and I’m so glad.  Heh, at least I’m not the only one with drowning drama family members 😉  Beautiful little farm.  I remember talking to my grandma Lorraine about her aging and how frightened she was of not being able to care for herself anymore.  She said that it wasn’t a fun experience.

  3. and thanks for sharing the beautiful pictures.

    we get just enough snow here that it is exciting and fun every time, and its very rare that it hangs around long enough to feel like a nuisance

    its comforting that you have people you trust who can help with looking in on your grandmother for you.  she and your mother sound like amazing women….tho im not surprised 😉

    • pfiore8 on January 26, 2008 at 5:02 pm

    i was away as well, house sitting. no internet. but a view of the river.

    glad you’re back ucc!!!

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