Rest in Peace Paul and Sheila – a personal tribute

I still remember the day five years ago today. I was in our lunch room at work when a co-worker called to say that there had been a plane accident involving Paul Wellstone. I ran into my office and turned on the radio. It didn’t take long to hear that both Paul and Sheila were gone. I cried the rest of the afternoon and for the first time I understood how people felt when Kennedy was assasinated.

The only difference was that, like so many Minnesotans, I had the opportunity to meet Paul and Sheila. Back in the early 90’s, after he had been elected to the Senate, Sheila visited with me for the better part of a Saturday, learning about the non-profit I work for. And then Paul joined us at the end of the day. Shortly before that, Paul had lost a lot of friends in the Senate when he forced a roll call vote on a pay raise for Senators. Paul had opposed the raise and wanted our elected representatives to have to go on record with their support. Paul and Sheila set the money from the raise aside after it had passed and gave it to charitable institutions in our community. A few months after we met, we got a check from them. And when we were moving our offices a year and a half ago, I found a hand-written note from Sheila thanking me for the time we’d spent together. Its now one of my most treasured possessions.

This story could be told a thousand time over from other folks here in Minnesota. Paul and Sheila worked so hard in Washington. But they remained connected, in very real ways, with all of us here at home. We ALL felt like we knew them, whether we’d had the chance to talk face-to-face or not. I remember seeing them at a movie theater near my house one evening. After the movie was over, everyone wanted to talk to them and shake their hands. Paul, ever the extrovert, ate it up and stayed long enough to connect with everyone. Sheila, much more of an introvert, just tolerated it all. But one-on-one, either would give you their full attention and let you know that your voice had been heard.

There will never be another Paul and Sheila. And I miss them terribly…especially in these dark days. But I do often think that what would make them most proud is our work to carry on their legacy. And I’m certain that they would be proud of Pakou Hang. She was Deputy Political Director for his last campaign and is running for St. Paul City Council – election November 6th.

The legacy lives on.

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  1. Really lifted my spirits.  And that Pakou Hang, wow!  She just burst right out of the screen with her enthusiasm and optimism.  I hope you’ll let us know how she did in the election.

    I think Paul and Sheila Wellstone would have liked very much what you wrote about them.

    • pfiore8 on October 26, 2007 at 03:31

    what a sweet sweet piece and OMG, i love this woman

    the legacy of Paul Wellstone is a teacher… be a ripple

    love this and thanks thanks !!!

  2. to edit the post to say this, but am having some trouble with that so I’ll just add it here.

    The first voice you hear in the video is MN Senator Mee Moua – Pakou’s cousin. She is the first Hmong ever elected to a State Legislature and Pakou was her campaign manager. I guess it runs in the family.

  3. that I have resigned to myself that I’ll never feel certainty about how much of an “accident” the plane crash was that killed Paul and Sheila.

    And just to give you a flavor of why I continue to have doubts, read this article from Common Dreams that was published about 6 months prior to their death about how much this administration despised Wellstone and the lengths they went to in order to get their preferred challenger in the race.

    All that and then a forced vote just weeks before the election on the IWR – which Wellstone voted against and was still leading in the polls.

    What I can’t shake is that these evil bastards are either the most lucky folks on the planet…or something very nefarious happened.

    So I live with my doubts and uncertainty.

  4. why GOP honchos never have plane crashes?

    Thanks for this remembrance.

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